To love or to be

One cannot possibly love someone.
One can only be love and then all one does is love...

A moment of lifetime love

Spend not a lifetime

with me

'cause you have to.

Be with me

instead

for a moment

in many lifetimes

'cause you wanted to

What are you willing to die for?

The answer to this question will change over time. As a child you may be willing to die over a toy, as a parent you may be willing to die over a child, as youth you may be willing to die for your love. What is important is to realize the possibility and promise of change.

Why does it matter what you are willing to die for? It matters because this is what drives your life and the decisions and the value system that you will run your life by. It signifies to you what is most important to you in your life. What is important to you in life will change as you change in who you are. Who we are determines what we cherish. And what we cherish and hold dear speaks volumes about who we are.

What's Next

If you had everything that you ever wanted. If you had done everything that you ever wanted to do or could ever want to do. What then will you go for then? What will you want to do then?

And if such a state is not possible at all in this life time, what will you do now and how will you determine when to stop? Will there ever be a stop? If not, how far are you willing to run? For how long? At what speed? At what cost?

Physiotherapy of Relationships

Time by itself does nothing more than promise change. But if one does not actively gear towards that change, it will be little surprise if the actual change does not turn out to be anywhere close to what one had expected. Sometimes, that can be good, but mostly it is a disappointment coupled together with a regret of things that could have been done but were left undone, of words that could have been said but were left unsaid.

Even though the tree bears no shade or fruit right now, it is very important that one continue to water and feed it. The greatest asset in life is faith and goodness of one's heart towards one and for all, knowing that one did one's best in all ways, always. It is a great blessing to have lived a life of no regrets.